See You on the Other Side
“The light of love never fades — it only changes form.”
(Originally published November 12, 2018 — Updated October 2025)
A Farewell & New Beginning
Love does not end with goodbye — it simply crosses over and finds a new way to walk beside us.
Within the same week, a dear friend of mine passed away and I adopted a new puppy. The dog had already been through so much, facing several health challenges, but was finally on his way to healing. When I look into his eyes, I’m reminded of the unconditional love we’re meant to experience during our time on Earth—to cherish every moment we share with those we love. In him, I see both renewal and remembrance of my beloved friend.
Life and death are such intricately woven rhythms. They always seem to unfold hand in hand—one ending as another begins. Losing someone suddenly, even after weeks of fighting, is a jarring reminder of how fragile life truly is. One day we’re lost in the mundane, and the next, everything changes. We all walk this invisible, paper-thin line where life teeters on one side and death on the other. I grieved the loss of someone who truly understood me. In my work, I share in this kind of grief every day with my clients. I feel their loss, their yearning—but the messages from Spirit are always clear: our loved ones are more than okay. They want us to live without fear, to know that they are free, whole, and radiant on the other side.
This summer, I was traveling and saw my friend the night before I left town. Something told me to stop by again the next morning. People often ask, “Don’t psychics see these things coming?” But it doesn’t always work that way. When I’m channeling, it’s a shared dialogue between me and Spirit—a kind of charade through symbols and sensations. My gift isn’t something I “turn off,” but outside of readings, I try to stay grounded and human like everyone else, guided mostly by intuition. I believe that intuition led me to her that day.
We talked for hours—about her life, our memories, and deep truths about life, death, and the afterlife. The energy in the room was electric, as if time itself paused to let us fully be in that sacred moment.
My partner had recently read a book called Biocentrism by Robert Lanza, and he shared some of its ideas with her that day. At the time, I didn’t know why that conversation felt so important, but now I do. She needed to hear those words. One of the book’s central ideas is that death is an illusion. Without diving too far into the science, it suggests that everything in the Universe exists as potential until observed by consciousness—that when we die, we simply return to a state of infinite possibility, beyond time itself. Energy can’t be destroyed; it only transforms. It was here before life, and it remains after.
I truly believe I was guided to see her that day to say goodbye. In that sacred space, I felt a soul recognition—a moment when we glimpsed each other’s true selves. She was someone who believed in my ability and supported my work wholeheartedly. I will always be grateful for her kindness, friendship, and faith in me.
For those uncertain about what lies ahead, know this: there is a light within us that cannot be extinguished. There is more love, peace, and joy on the other side than we can possibly imagine. I not only believe this—I know it, because I hear it every day from the loved ones of my clients.
They send signs and reminders to us constantly. When you remember them, talk to them, or feel a sudden wave of love wash over you, that is them. Even when you feel joy again—and perhaps a little guilt for feeling it without them—know that they are there with you, sharing in your happiness. That lightness in your heart is them lifting you up.
It’s a reminder to live with love. Connect deeply with others. Make time for old friends, and make room for new ones. Because in the end, it’s our connections that define a life. Love is the only thing that traverses this world and the next.
